In March 1917, Susi (“Joseph”) Czarnecki was born. Just over four years before, Nechama (“Nellie”, later Valerie Lillian “Lillie”) Czarnecki was born. Their fathers were “Felix” (presumably Efrayim or Jankie) and Yehudah (“Julian”, etc./“Ludwick”, etc.) Czerniecki; and their mothers had Jewish roots in Ukraine. Susi’s brother Tony (the father of my paternal grandfather) was born in Tsuman’ (“Suman”), and Tony’s mother had relatives in Buzhanka, Lysyanka, Berezhany, and Kuty. By the way, if you don’t think that Tony‘s mother knew what she was saying when she gave her son’s birth place as “Suman”, think again. She wasn’t thinking of some supposed “Cumań” near Sejny; and Tony subsequently celebrated his birthday on October 24th instead of on the day of the Kaniv Pogrom.
Meanwhile, Tony’s wife, Mary, was a sister of Lillie’s husband, John (remarried to the widow of Lillie’s brother Joseph**). John’s & Mary’s father, Mihály Nagy (later Michael Trudnak), had Jewish roots in the Odesa & Kyiv areas (Trudnyakov/Trudnyak, etc.).
Mihály himself was the “illegitimate” son of Mária Nagyová & Mihály Trudnyak, and someone would go on to make sure that Mary & Tony weren’t really married in a church—as a certain Reverend Halicki never signed the marriage license. John and Lillie by contrast did have a signed marriage license, and it’s therefore presumed that Tony’s mother made sure that history repeated—as she believed in shidduch and not love in the American sense, and she had the mistaken impression that Christianity is Antisemitic.
My family has other roots in the Jewish Diaspora in Ukraine as well. Ergo, my family knew that Ukraine was not perfect, especially as Russian influence crept back into it (Remember that Ukraine was originally Kyivan Rus’). My family also knew that Russia (Ukraine’s equivalent of Arabia) was far more dangerous than Ukraine for the most part had ever been (Ukraine:Russia is as Israel:Arabs—no Ukrainians, no Russians; just as no Hebrews would mean no Arabs.). They also would (if they could’ve been openly Jewish) be thrilled to see Volodymyr Zelenskyy rise up as a sort-of Esther to take on the Russian menace that Vladimir Putin*** is. If nothing else, my family’s history is part of why I stand with Ukraine led by Volodymyr Zelenskyy.
Incidentally, it’ll probably unfortunately take a miracle and/or generations for most of my family to take simcha in being Jewish. ****
**Anna Mikitka Czarnecki was later Anna Czarnecki Trudnak.
*** Even if Vladimir Putin‘s mother was Jewish, Vladimir Putin was cut off in every other way from ‘Am Yisra’el a long time ago. While One cannot change his or her ethnicity, one can change, whether or not he, or she has the right to claim the blessings which belong to Israel.
**** I will be doing a subsequent blog entry about DNA testing, by the way. Self reporting can absolutely affect how DNA results turn out. Be honest with your children, as especially attempted Ashkenazi erasure is real—and if Non-Ashkenazi Jews were the majority, the attempted erasure would be perpetrated against especially Non-Ashkenazi Jews.