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Showing posts with label marriage. Show all posts
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Saturday, February 18, 2017

A Jewish "Zhang" In China With MRKH? If So, Another Factor In the "Be Fruitful" Mitzvah To Examine Comes To Light

A 23-year-old woman named "Zhang", possibly "Joshua", had a corrective surgery to improve her marital and fertility prospects:

"As time went by, Zhang's parents became more and more worried that their daughter would not be able to date, marry and have children due to her condition. So the family contacted the No.1 Affiliated Hospital of the Medical School of Xi'an Jiatong University for help.
"Zhang was diagnosed with Mayer-Rokitansky-Küster-Hauser syndrome (MRKH), a congenital abnormality characterised by women who have no vagina, womb and cervix...
"A B-scan ultra-sonography revealed that Zhang has no vagina or uterus, but she has functioning ovaries.
"She told the doctors that she had not been able to date any men because of her condition. She also had to turn down many admirers who had asked her out."

As an bat-Anusim, I would not be surprised if she is a Kaifenger Anusit and/or bat-Anusim*. After all, the reproductive aspect of "be fruitful and multiply" is heavily emphasized in traditional Judaism (not withstanding that some did and do focus on the non-reproductive aspects)—and in her case, it may have brought up another issue in Rabbinic halacha: "May one have any corrective or curative surgery that involves grafting a non-reproductive part onto a reproductive part, or would having such be a chillul יהוה in that it would involve l'sachek יהוה?"




*By the way, you will never catching me using "Anus" or "Anusah". If you can't figure out why, you may have never faced the kind of Anti Semitism that I have.

Friday, December 30, 2016

More Easily Suitored Than Sought & Loved

Many guys—even good guys—claim that they wouldn't care if a prospect had disabilities, and then push comes to shove. Having Cerebral Palsy and mental illnesses, I can tell you exactly what I am—or at least potentially am—regardless of whether a guy could or could not handle it:


  1. A medical expense—e.g., I take three medications for OCD/Anxiety, Depression, and ADD. 
  2. A burden—e.g., What kind of guy wants to be bound by a woman whom can't drive?
  3. An embarrassment—e.g., What kind of guy wants to have to drive a woman to Baclofen Pump refill appointments; and what kind of guy wants to lose friends because of being a woman with Cerebral Palsy and mental illnesses?
I'm crying as I'm typing all of this, too, as I know the pain of being a woman with disabilities and a damned statistic unless some miracle saves me—e.g.:



Saturday, November 26, 2016

An Example The Cockamamie Bull**** About Which You Find Out When You Look At Census Records, Etc..

In this case, John and Mary Cassilly Farrell finally separated or divorced for good in February 23, 1915. Mary Farrell declared him dead on that date, and she declared herself a widow in the 1920 Census and when she died in 1924. John Farrell, however, was also "widowed" and doing fine, thanks (and I'm the liar? Give me a ******* break. Yes, I'm talking to you, Colleen (I kept your comment and my reply up, so that everyone can see it—I have nothing to hide in that regard); and I do "tell the truth about our family"; thanks.)

By the way, some of the information in the indices, etc. needed to be corrected, too (e.g., 47 in 1900 mein tuchus!); and that information is added in blue brackets by Ancestry, etc. once they look at someone's correction.

1880:

NameMary Farrell
Age43
Birth Yearabt 1837
BirthplaceMaryland
Home in 1880Baltimore, Baltimore (Independent City), Maryland
RaceWhite
GenderFemale
Relation to Head of HouseWife
Marital StatusMarried
Spouse's NameJohn Farrell
Father's BirthplaceIreland
Mother's BirthplaceIreland
OccupationDress Maker
Household Members
NameAge
John Farrell44
Mary Farrell43
Edwd. P. Farrell22
Annie Farrell20
Ella Farrell15
Mollie Farrell8
Agnes Farrell5


1900 (Three total for John Farrell):

NameMary Farrell
Age62
Birth DateDec 1837
BirthplaceMaryland
Home in 1900Baltimore Ward 5, Baltimore City (Independent City), Maryland
RaceWhite
GenderFemale
Relation to Head of HouseWife
Marital StatusMarried
Spouse's NameJohn Farrell
Marriage Year1856
Years Married44
Father's BirthplaceIreland
Mother's BirthplaceIreland
Mother: number of living children5
Mother: How many children7
Household Members
NameAge
John Farrell64
Mary Farrell62
Annie Farrell40
Mollie Farrell32
Agnes Farrell25
Elsie Snyder24
Mamie Snyder22



NameJohn Farrell
Age58
Birth DateAug 1841
BirthplaceIreland
Home in 1900Election District 13, Baltimore City (Independent City), Maryland
RaceWhite
GenderMale
Immigration Year1865
Relation to Head of HouseHead
Marital StatusWidowed
Father's BirthplaceIreland
Mother's BirthplaceIreland
Household Members
NameAge
John Farrell58
James J Farrell34
Elizabeth T Farrell30
John T Farrell28








NameJohn Farrell
Age64
Birth DateApr 1836
BirthplaceIreland
Home in 1900Baltimore Ward 5, Baltimore City (Independent City), Maryland
RaceWhite
GenderMale
Relation to Head of HouseHead
Marital StatusMarried
Spouse's NameMary Farrell
Marriage Year1856
Years Married44
Father's BirthplaceIreland
Mother's BirthplaceIreland
Household Members
NameAge
John Farrell64
Mary Farrell62
Annie Farrell40
Mollie Farrell32
Agnes Farrell25
Elsie Snyder24
Mamie Snyder22


NameJohn Farrell
Age47
Birth DateJan 1873
BirthplaceIreland
Home in 1900Baltimore Ward 20, Baltimore City (Independent City), Maryland
RaceWhite
GenderMale
Immigration Year1880
Relation to Head of HouseBoarder
Marital StatusSingle
Father's BirthplaceIreland
Mother's BirthplaceIreland
Household Members
NameAge
Matthew Dolan55
Margaret Dolan50
John Farrell47




1910 (Two total for John Farrell)

NameMary Farrell
Age in 191072
Birth Yearabt 1838
BirthplaceMaryland
Home in 1910Baltimore Ward 2, Baltimore (Independent City), Maryland
StreetSouth Washington Street
RaceWhite
GenderFemale
Relation to Head of HouseWife
Marital StatusMarried
Spouse's NameJohn Farrell
Father's BirthplaceIreland
Mother's BirthplaceIreland
Native TongueEnglish
OccupationDressmaker
IndustryAt Home
Employer, Employee or OtherOwn Account
Able to readYes
Able to WriteYes
Years Married53
Number of Children Born7
Number of Children Living5
Household Members
NameAge
John Farrell73
Mary Farrell72
Anna V Farrell50
Mary E Farrell38
Mary E Schomeider32

NameJohn Farrell
Age in 191069
Birth Yearabt 1841
BirthplaceIreland
Home in 1910Election District 13, Baltimore, Maryland
StreetBenson Avenue
RaceWhite
GenderMale
Immigration Year1865
Relation to Head of HouseHead
Marital StatusWidowed
Father's BirthplaceIreland
Mother's BirthplaceIreland
Native TongueEnglish
OccupationDairyman
IndustryFarm
Employer, Employee or OtherOwn Account
Home Owned or RentedOwn
Home Free or MortgagedFree
Farm or HouseFarm
Naturalization StatusNaturalized
Able to readYes
Able to WriteYes
Out of WorkN
Household Members
NameAge
John Farrell69
James J Farrell42
Elizabeth T Farrell40
Matthew Dolan75
Margaret Dolan64





1920

NameMary Farrell
Age82
Birth Yearabt 1838
BirthplaceMaryland
Home in 1920Baltimore Ward 2, Baltimore (Independent City), Maryland
StreetSouth Washington St
House Number232
RaceWhite
GenderFemale
Relation to Head of HouseHead
Marital StatusWidowed
Father's BirthplaceIreland
Mother's BirthplaceIreland
Able to Speak EnglishYes
Home Free or MortgagedFree
Household Members
NameAge
Mary Farrell82
Anna V Farrell60
Mollie Farrell45
Mary Snyder42


NameJohn Farrell
Age79
Birth Yearabt 1841
BirthplaceIreland
Home in 1920Baltimore Ward 25, Baltimore (Independent City), Maryland
StreetBinson Ave
House NumberX
RaceWhite
GenderMale
Immigration Year1865
Relation to Head of HouseHead
Marital StatusMarried
Father's BirthplaceIreland
Mother's BirthplaceIreland
Native TongueIrish
Able to Speak EnglishYes
OccupationNone
Home Free or MortgagedFree
Naturalization StatusNaturalized
Household Members
NameAge
John Farrell79
James Farrell53
Elizabeth Farrell51
Margret Dolan75


1930

NameJohn Farrell
Age in 193089
Birth Yearabt 1841
GenderMale
RaceWhite
BirthplaceIreland
Marital StatusWidowed
Relation to Head of HouseFather
Home in 1930Baltimore, Baltimore (Independent City), Maryland
Map of HomeBaltimore, Baltimore (Independent City), Maryland
Street AddressBenson avenue
Ward of City25th.Tract 72Pt of
Block36 Tract 1
House Number in Cities or Towns3401
Dwelling Number1
Family Number1
Attended SchoolNo
Able to Read and WriteYes
Father's BirthplaceIreland
Mother's BirthplaceIreland
Language SpokenEnglish
Immigration Year1872
NaturalizationNaturalized
Able to Speak EnglishYes
Household Members
NameAge
James J Farrell64
John Farrell89
Elizabeth T Farrell61
Margaret Dolan87


PS I'm doing this for your benefit, too, Colleen. If you want to ever go after anybody for not "tell[ing] the truth about our family" on my blog, go after someone else—I am not worth messing with if you don't want to get sued for libel.

By the way, John Farrell died in 1934 and left a will: