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Showing posts with label libel. Show all posts
Showing posts with label libel. Show all posts

Wednesday, November 8, 2017

Dealing With Sheer Libel And Slander As An Author And As A Person Overall

I've decided that I'm going to be more proactive in regards to libel and slander against myself and—when to do so is necessary—libel and slander against others. I have had being libelled and slandered over the years, and I have even confronted paternal and maternal family members over it. In fact, in my new book, I wrote the following about both lies that my maternal grandfather's mother told and a long-standing issue because of relatives whom are libelling and slandering me over it:

"Meanwhile, this alone (as I’m now realizing) helps to explain why I thoroughly and even defensively  explain quite a bit of what I explain—as if getting called “an overall liar” at Sheppard Pratt by a caseworker whom fell for my father’s lies about me wasn’t enough, having Nana Allen throw her younger children and their descendants for a loop really affected me to start laying out every detail of quite a few cases once I found out about being thrown for such a loop—and as if many of my matriarchs and patriarchs on Dad’s side didn’t do enough loop throwing, todah rabah (and their loop throwing was more understandable than her loop throwing, as—as I later read—the Inquisition ended in 1834, whereas increasing Anti Semitism still affects many of my paternal relatives loathe to admit that we’re Jewish—even to the point at which one relative is trying to paint me as an overall liar in regard to what my father’s maternal grandmother did, and notwithstanding that I can neither help what happened or conjure up evidence to fit the narrative of what he wants to believe what happened."

Here's my advice to anyone whom would be tempted to libel and slander others in the future:


  1. Remember that even in the era of *****, verbal abuse such as libel and slander is never normal—and that includes what that Mila Kunis did in misrepresenting herself and using Mike Pence's name is not normal, even if the Supreme Court should rule (and there exists a very-real possibility that the SCOTUS will rule) that what Mila Kunis did is a protest that is protected by the First Amendment, despite that she committed misdemeanor-level representation at the very least (and I guarantee that any case against Mila Kunis will be appealed up to the Supreme Court).
  2. As I've said, keep in mind I may well sue in certain cases in which I'm libelled and slandered, and I may even press charges of criminal libel and slander against those whom are libelling and slandering me—especially since some of the libel and slander that I've had directed against me has been tantamount to hate crimes and even included threats on my life.
  3. If you insist on libelling and slandering others, see how well libelling and slandering others ends up working out for you when at least one of your libel and slander victims does end up suing you and/or having you prosecuted.
  4. Remember that if you are especially trying to destroy others' livelihoods and/or reputations when you libel and slander them, you may well destroy your livelihood and/or reputation if your boss decides to fire you and you even end up not being able to find another job (By the way, Mila Kunis could well lose her career over representing herself as Mike Pence if the court of public opinion does not rule in her favor, even if the SCOTUS does.).
  5. If you are religious in any way, remember that your religion usually include libel- and slander-prohibiting commandments such as "Do not bear false witness," "Love your neighbor as yourself", and "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you." If you work in a religious occupation—e.g., as a priest, rabbi or gabbai, or moderate imam; at a YMCA branch, Jewish Community Center, or a Muslim Community Center; or for a religiously-affiliated 501(c)(3) organization—remember that you could also lose your job due to violating one of the core tenets of your religion. 
  6. If you have children and/or others for whom you have to set a good example, remember that libelling and slandering others is not setting a good example.
  7. Remember that when each of us dies, he or she will leave a legacy in which he or she probably does not want to include a reputation for having libelled and slandered others.
As for me, while I'm not perfect and without instances of having libelled and slandered others in the past, I have worked hard throughout my entire life to be circumspect in avoiding libelling and slandering others. 


Saturday, November 26, 2016

An Example The Cockamamie Bull**** About Which You Find Out When You Look At Census Records, Etc..

In this case, John and Mary Cassilly Farrell finally separated or divorced for good in February 23, 1915. Mary Farrell declared him dead on that date, and she declared herself a widow in the 1920 Census and when she died in 1924. John Farrell, however, was also "widowed" and doing fine, thanks (and I'm the liar? Give me a ******* break. Yes, I'm talking to you, Colleen (I kept your comment and my reply up, so that everyone can see it—I have nothing to hide in that regard); and I do "tell the truth about our family"; thanks.)

By the way, some of the information in the indices, etc. needed to be corrected, too (e.g., 47 in 1900 mein tuchus!); and that information is added in blue brackets by Ancestry, etc. once they look at someone's correction.

1880:

NameMary Farrell
Age43
Birth Yearabt 1837
BirthplaceMaryland
Home in 1880Baltimore, Baltimore (Independent City), Maryland
RaceWhite
GenderFemale
Relation to Head of HouseWife
Marital StatusMarried
Spouse's NameJohn Farrell
Father's BirthplaceIreland
Mother's BirthplaceIreland
OccupationDress Maker
Household Members
NameAge
John Farrell44
Mary Farrell43
Edwd. P. Farrell22
Annie Farrell20
Ella Farrell15
Mollie Farrell8
Agnes Farrell5


1900 (Three total for John Farrell):

NameMary Farrell
Age62
Birth DateDec 1837
BirthplaceMaryland
Home in 1900Baltimore Ward 5, Baltimore City (Independent City), Maryland
RaceWhite
GenderFemale
Relation to Head of HouseWife
Marital StatusMarried
Spouse's NameJohn Farrell
Marriage Year1856
Years Married44
Father's BirthplaceIreland
Mother's BirthplaceIreland
Mother: number of living children5
Mother: How many children7
Household Members
NameAge
John Farrell64
Mary Farrell62
Annie Farrell40
Mollie Farrell32
Agnes Farrell25
Elsie Snyder24
Mamie Snyder22



NameJohn Farrell
Age58
Birth DateAug 1841
BirthplaceIreland
Home in 1900Election District 13, Baltimore City (Independent City), Maryland
RaceWhite
GenderMale
Immigration Year1865
Relation to Head of HouseHead
Marital StatusWidowed
Father's BirthplaceIreland
Mother's BirthplaceIreland
Household Members
NameAge
John Farrell58
James J Farrell34
Elizabeth T Farrell30
John T Farrell28








NameJohn Farrell
Age64
Birth DateApr 1836
BirthplaceIreland
Home in 1900Baltimore Ward 5, Baltimore City (Independent City), Maryland
RaceWhite
GenderMale
Relation to Head of HouseHead
Marital StatusMarried
Spouse's NameMary Farrell
Marriage Year1856
Years Married44
Father's BirthplaceIreland
Mother's BirthplaceIreland
Household Members
NameAge
John Farrell64
Mary Farrell62
Annie Farrell40
Mollie Farrell32
Agnes Farrell25
Elsie Snyder24
Mamie Snyder22


NameJohn Farrell
Age47
Birth DateJan 1873
BirthplaceIreland
Home in 1900Baltimore Ward 20, Baltimore City (Independent City), Maryland
RaceWhite
GenderMale
Immigration Year1880
Relation to Head of HouseBoarder
Marital StatusSingle
Father's BirthplaceIreland
Mother's BirthplaceIreland
Household Members
NameAge
Matthew Dolan55
Margaret Dolan50
John Farrell47




1910 (Two total for John Farrell)

NameMary Farrell
Age in 191072
Birth Yearabt 1838
BirthplaceMaryland
Home in 1910Baltimore Ward 2, Baltimore (Independent City), Maryland
StreetSouth Washington Street
RaceWhite
GenderFemale
Relation to Head of HouseWife
Marital StatusMarried
Spouse's NameJohn Farrell
Father's BirthplaceIreland
Mother's BirthplaceIreland
Native TongueEnglish
OccupationDressmaker
IndustryAt Home
Employer, Employee or OtherOwn Account
Able to readYes
Able to WriteYes
Years Married53
Number of Children Born7
Number of Children Living5
Household Members
NameAge
John Farrell73
Mary Farrell72
Anna V Farrell50
Mary E Farrell38
Mary E Schomeider32

NameJohn Farrell
Age in 191069
Birth Yearabt 1841
BirthplaceIreland
Home in 1910Election District 13, Baltimore, Maryland
StreetBenson Avenue
RaceWhite
GenderMale
Immigration Year1865
Relation to Head of HouseHead
Marital StatusWidowed
Father's BirthplaceIreland
Mother's BirthplaceIreland
Native TongueEnglish
OccupationDairyman
IndustryFarm
Employer, Employee or OtherOwn Account
Home Owned or RentedOwn
Home Free or MortgagedFree
Farm or HouseFarm
Naturalization StatusNaturalized
Able to readYes
Able to WriteYes
Out of WorkN
Household Members
NameAge
John Farrell69
James J Farrell42
Elizabeth T Farrell40
Matthew Dolan75
Margaret Dolan64





1920

NameMary Farrell
Age82
Birth Yearabt 1838
BirthplaceMaryland
Home in 1920Baltimore Ward 2, Baltimore (Independent City), Maryland
StreetSouth Washington St
House Number232
RaceWhite
GenderFemale
Relation to Head of HouseHead
Marital StatusWidowed
Father's BirthplaceIreland
Mother's BirthplaceIreland
Able to Speak EnglishYes
Home Free or MortgagedFree
Household Members
NameAge
Mary Farrell82
Anna V Farrell60
Mollie Farrell45
Mary Snyder42


NameJohn Farrell
Age79
Birth Yearabt 1841
BirthplaceIreland
Home in 1920Baltimore Ward 25, Baltimore (Independent City), Maryland
StreetBinson Ave
House NumberX
RaceWhite
GenderMale
Immigration Year1865
Relation to Head of HouseHead
Marital StatusMarried
Father's BirthplaceIreland
Mother's BirthplaceIreland
Native TongueIrish
Able to Speak EnglishYes
OccupationNone
Home Free or MortgagedFree
Naturalization StatusNaturalized
Household Members
NameAge
John Farrell79
James Farrell53
Elizabeth Farrell51
Margret Dolan75


1930

NameJohn Farrell
Age in 193089
Birth Yearabt 1841
GenderMale
RaceWhite
BirthplaceIreland
Marital StatusWidowed
Relation to Head of HouseFather
Home in 1930Baltimore, Baltimore (Independent City), Maryland
Map of HomeBaltimore, Baltimore (Independent City), Maryland
Street AddressBenson avenue
Ward of City25th.Tract 72Pt of
Block36 Tract 1
House Number in Cities or Towns3401
Dwelling Number1
Family Number1
Attended SchoolNo
Able to Read and WriteYes
Father's BirthplaceIreland
Mother's BirthplaceIreland
Language SpokenEnglish
Immigration Year1872
NaturalizationNaturalized
Able to Speak EnglishYes
Household Members
NameAge
James J Farrell64
John Farrell89
Elizabeth T Farrell61
Margaret Dolan87


PS I'm doing this for your benefit, too, Colleen. If you want to ever go after anybody for not "tell[ing] the truth about our family" on my blog, go after someone else—I am not worth messing with if you don't want to get sued for libel.

By the way, John Farrell died in 1934 and left a will: