A Jewish "Zhang" In China With MRKH? If So, Another Factor In the "Be Fruitful" Mitzvah To Examine Comes To Light

A 23-year-old woman named "Zhang", possibly "Joshua", had a corrective surgery to improve her marital and fertility prospects:

"As time went by, Zhang's parents became more and more worried that their daughter would not be able to date, marry and have children due to her condition. So the family contacted the No.1 Affiliated Hospital of the Medical School of Xi'an Jiatong University for help.
"Zhang was diagnosed with Mayer-Rokitansky-Küster-Hauser syndrome (MRKH), a congenital abnormality characterised by women who have no vagina, womb and cervix...
"A B-scan ultra-sonography revealed that Zhang has no vagina or uterus, but she has functioning ovaries.
"She told the doctors that she had not been able to date any men because of her condition. She also had to turn down many admirers who had asked her out."

As an bat-Anusim, I would not be surprised if she is a Kaifenger Anusit and/or bat-Anusim*. After all, the reproductive aspect of "be fruitful and multiply" is heavily emphasized in traditional Judaism (not withstanding that some did and do focus on the non-reproductive aspects)—and in her case, it may have brought up another issue in Rabbinic halacha: "May one have any corrective or curative surgery that involves grafting a non-reproductive part onto a reproductive part, or would having such be a chillul יהוה in that it would involve l'sachek יהוה?"

*By the way, you will never catching me using "Anus" or "Anusah". If you can't figure out why, you may have never faced the kind of Anti Semitism that I have.

More Easily Suitored Than Sought & Loved

Many guys—even good guys—claim that they wouldn't care if a prospect had disabilities, and then push comes to shove. Having Cerebral Palsy and mental illnesses, I can tell you exactly what I am—or at least potentially am—regardless of whether a guy could or could not handle it:

1. A medical expense—e.g., I take three medications for OCD/Anxiety, Depression, and ADD. 
2. A burden—e.g., What kind of guy wants to be bound by a woman whom can't drive?
3. An embarrassment—e.g., What kind of guy wants to have to drive a woman to Baclofen Pump refill appointments; and what kind of guy wants to lose friends because of being a woman with Cerebral Palsy and mental illnesses?

I'm crying as I'm typing all of this, too, as I know the pain of being a woman with disabilities and a damned statistic unless some miracle saves me—e.g.:

1. Many guys leave women with disabilities and illnesses such as cancer.
2. Many guys don't want women with disabilities in the first place.

What else can I say? I'm still crying as I type this. 

An Example The Cockamamie Bull**** About Which You Find Out When You Look At Census Records, Etc..

In this case, John and Mary Cassilly Farrell finally separated or divorced for good in February 23, 1915. Mary Farrell declared him dead on that date, and she declared herself a widow in the 1920 Census and when she died in 1924. John Farrell, however, was also "widowed" and doing fine, thanks (and I'm the liar? Give me a ******* break. Yes, I'm talking to you, Colleen (I kept your comment and my reply up, so that everyone can see it—I have nothing to hide in that regard); and I do "tell the truth about our family"; thanks.)

By the way, some of the information in the indices, etc. needed to be corrected, too (e.g., 47 in 1900 mein tuchus!); and that information is added in blue brackets by Ancestry, etc. once they look at someone's correction.

1880:

Name	Mary Farrell
Age	43
Birth Year	abt 1837
Birthplace	Maryland
Home in 1880	Baltimore, Baltimore (Independent City), Maryland
Race	White
Gender	Female
Relation to Head of House	Wife
Marital Status	Married
Spouse's Name	John Farrell
Father's Birthplace	Ireland
Mother's Birthplace	Ireland
Occupation	Dress Maker
Household Members	Name Age John Farrell 44 Mary Farrell 43 Edwd. P. Farrell 22 Annie Farrell 20 Ella Farrell 15 Mollie Farrell 8 Agnes Farrell 5

1900 (Three total for John Farrell):

Name	Mary Farrell
Age	62
Birth Date	Dec 1837
Birthplace	Maryland
Home in 1900	Baltimore Ward 5, Baltimore City (Independent City), Maryland
Race	White
Gender	Female
Relation to Head of House	Wife
Marital Status	Married
Spouse's Name	John Farrell
Marriage Year	1856
Years Married	44
Father's Birthplace	Ireland
Mother's Birthplace	Ireland
Mother: number of living children	5
Mother: How many children	7
Household Members	Name Age John Farrell 64 Mary Farrell 62 Annie Farrell 40 Mollie Farrell 32 Agnes Farrell 25 Elsie Snyder 24 Mamie Snyder 22

Name	John Farrell
Age	58
Birth Date	Aug 1841
Birthplace	Ireland
Home in 1900	Election District 13, Baltimore City (Independent City), Maryland
Race	White
Gender	Male
Immigration Year	1865
Relation to Head of House	Head
Marital Status	Widowed
Father's Birthplace	Ireland
Mother's Birthplace	Ireland
Household Members	Name Age John Farrell 58 James J Farrell 34 Elizabeth T Farrell 30 John T Farrell 28

Name	John Farrell
Age	64
Birth Date	Apr 1836
Birthplace	Ireland
Home in 1900	Baltimore Ward 5, Baltimore City (Independent City), Maryland
Race	White
Gender	Male
Relation to Head of House	Head
Marital Status	Married
Spouse's Name	Mary Farrell
Marriage Year	1856
Years Married	44
Father's Birthplace	Ireland
Mother's Birthplace	Ireland
Household Members	Name Age John Farrell 64 Mary Farrell 62 Annie Farrell 40 Mollie Farrell 32 Agnes Farrell 25 Elsie Snyder 24 Mamie Snyder 22

Name	John Farrell
Age	47
Birth Date	Jan 1873
Birthplace	Ireland
Home in 1900	Baltimore Ward 20, Baltimore City (Independent City), Maryland
Race	White
Gender	Male
Immigration Year	1880
Relation to Head of House	Boarder
Marital Status	Single
Father's Birthplace	Ireland
Mother's Birthplace	Ireland
Household Members	Name Age Matthew Dolan 55 Margaret Dolan 50 John Farrell 47

1910 (Two total for John Farrell)

Name	Mary Farrell
Age in 1910	72
Birth Year	abt 1838
Birthplace	Maryland
Home in 1910	Baltimore Ward 2, Baltimore (Independent City), Maryland
Street	South Washington Street
Race	White
Gender	Female
Relation to Head of House	Wife
Marital Status	Married
Spouse's Name	John Farrell
Father's Birthplace	Ireland
Mother's Birthplace	Ireland
Native Tongue	English
Occupation	Dressmaker
Industry	At Home
Employer, Employee or Other	Own Account
Able to read	Yes
Able to Write	Yes
Years Married	53
Number of Children Born	7
Number of Children Living	5
Household Members	Name Age John Farrell 73 Mary Farrell 72 Anna V Farrell 50 Mary E Farrell 38 Mary E Schomeider 32

Name	John Farrell
Age in 1910	69
Birth Year	abt 1841
Birthplace	Ireland
Home in 1910	Election District 13, Baltimore, Maryland
Street	Benson Avenue
Race	White
Gender	Male
Immigration Year	1865
Relation to Head of House	Head
Marital Status	Widowed
Father's Birthplace	Ireland
Mother's Birthplace	Ireland
Native Tongue	English
Occupation	Dairyman
Industry	Farm
Employer, Employee or Other	Own Account
Home Owned or Rented	Own
Home Free or Mortgaged	Free
Farm or House	Farm
Naturalization Status	Naturalized
Able to read	Yes
Able to Write	Yes
Out of Work	N
Household Members	Name Age John Farrell 69 James J Farrell 42 Elizabeth T Farrell 40 Matthew Dolan 75 Margaret Dolan 64

1920

Name	Mary Farrell
Age	82
Birth Year	abt 1838
Birthplace	Maryland
Home in 1920	Baltimore Ward 2, Baltimore (Independent City), Maryland
Street	South Washington St
House Number	232
Race	White
Gender	Female
Relation to Head of House	Head
Marital Status	Widowed
Father's Birthplace	Ireland
Mother's Birthplace	Ireland
Able to Speak English	Yes
Home Free or Mortgaged	Free
Household Members	Name Age Mary Farrell 82 Anna V Farrell 60 Mollie Farrell 45 Mary Snyder 42

Name	John Farrell
Age	79
Birth Year	abt 1841
Birthplace	Ireland
Home in 1920	Baltimore Ward 25, Baltimore (Independent City), Maryland
Street	Binson Ave
House Number	X
Race	White
Gender	Male
Immigration Year	1865
Relation to Head of House	Head
Marital Status	Married
Father's Birthplace	Ireland
Mother's Birthplace	Ireland
Native Tongue	Irish
Able to Speak English	Yes
Occupation	None
Home Free or Mortgaged	Free
Naturalization Status	Naturalized
Household Members	Name Age John Farrell 79 James Farrell 53 Elizabeth Farrell 51 Margret Dolan 75

1930

Name	John Farrell
Age in 1930	89
Birth Year	abt 1841
Gender	Male
Race	White
Birthplace	Ireland
Marital Status	Widowed
Relation to Head of House	Father
Home in 1930	Baltimore, Baltimore (Independent City), Maryland
Map of Home	Baltimore, Baltimore (Independent City), Maryland
Street Address	Benson avenue
Ward of City	25th.Tract 72Pt of
Block	36 Tract 1
House Number in Cities or Towns	3401
Dwelling Number	1
Family Number	1
Attended School	No
Able to Read and Write	Yes
Father's Birthplace	Ireland
Mother's Birthplace	Ireland
Language Spoken	English
Immigration Year	1872
Naturalization	Naturalized
Able to Speak English	Yes
Household Members	Name Age James J Farrell 64 John Farrell 89 Elizabeth T Farrell 61 Margaret Dolan 87

PS I'm doing this for your benefit, too, Colleen. If you want to ever go after anybody for not "tell[ing] the truth about our family" on my blog, go after someone else—I am not worth messing with if you don't want to get sued for libel.

By the way, John Farrell died in 1934 and left a will: