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I know [that he cares for me], and I'm not sure if we even
share many interests, for example.
share many interests, for example.
I'm not saying that to be mean. Even with the last two guys
I dated (and both were bad apples), I almost had few to no things in common
with them. Compatibility is important in my considering of a good guy. And I'm
a divorce statistic waiting to happen if I get with the wrong guy—and I did
that twice. I didn't marry the guys, granted, but I thought that I would.
I dated (and both were bad apples), I almost had few to no things in common
with them. Compatibility is important in my considering of a good guy. And I'm
a divorce statistic waiting to happen if I get with the wrong guy—and I did
that twice. I didn't marry the guys, granted, but I thought that I would.
And just imagine if I had married either one of them!...They
were [bad, indeed].
were [bad, indeed].
I had to call the police on both… Both for harassment. And, as
I figured out later, one had raped his previous girlfriend[s] (He had claimed that
he had raped her.). The first almost hit me after we broke up…I was lucky that I was never
physically hurt by the other one…I know [that this guy would never abuse me], and
I'm not willing to get into another relationship unless it's with whom I know
and am sure is the one…So, it isn't you. It's me; and I don't mean that as a
cliche….I mean...consider this: my dad and both of his born siblings have all
divorced and/or remarried. Same with my mom and all but two of her born
siblings (two were not born), and my Green-Carroll great-great-grandma divorced.
So did two Trudniak great-granduncles [Frank and Edward, and with Edward being
divorced three times]. And I've been in two bad relationships.
I figured out later, one had raped his previous girlfriend[s] (He had claimed that
he had raped her.). The first almost hit me after we broke up…I was lucky that I was never
physically hurt by the other one…I know [that this guy would never abuse me], and
I'm not willing to get into another relationship unless it's with whom I know
and am sure is the one…So, it isn't you. It's me; and I don't mean that as a
cliche….I mean...consider this: my dad and both of his born siblings have all
divorced and/or remarried. Same with my mom and all but two of her born
siblings (two were not born), and my Green-Carroll great-great-grandma divorced.
So did two Trudniak great-granduncles [Frank and Edward, and with Edward being
divorced three times]. And I've been in two bad relationships.
And I've had to turn you and three other guys down in the
past couple of years (including [a mutual friend]). So, I am having to be
careful. In fact, by turning you down, I am (as I did with the other three) saving
you heartbreak and/or a whole lot of other issues. My dad's family will be
enough of an issue, by the way. Also add in that I have CP and a baclofen pump,
Depression, OCD/Anxiety, ADD, and Irritable Bowel Syndrome…. And trust me when
I say that you will thank me for turning you down. That girl [who he likes] is
way more in your league than I am. And I mean that in a good way.
[See my blog and my Ancestry.com family tree if you want an idea of my dad's family being a issue in of themselves, by the way. You will find them at my About.me page.]
past couple of years (including [a mutual friend]). So, I am having to be
careful. In fact, by turning you down, I am (as I did with the other three) saving
you heartbreak and/or a whole lot of other issues. My dad's family will be
enough of an issue, by the way. Also add in that I have CP and a baclofen pump,
Depression, OCD/Anxiety, ADD, and Irritable Bowel Syndrome…. And trust me when
I say that you will thank me for turning you down. That girl [who he likes] is
way more in your league than I am. And I mean that in a good way.
[See my blog and my Ancestry.com family tree if you want an idea of my dad's family being a issue in of themselves, by the way. You will find them at my About.me page.]
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